TIME-OUR MOST PRECIOUS POSSESSION
TIME IS THE CHRYSALIS OF ETERNITY( Anant kaal)
God’s greatest and only gift to mankind is TIME because there is no favouritism, no variation and no imbalance in distribution to any person without any consideration for race, creed, colour or position under which one may be born. Each person receives the same allotment of just 24 hrs a day. In the real of TIME there is no aristocracy of neither wealth nor intellect. Even genius is never rewarded by an extra minute a day.
Time is a Mysterious an imponderable subject yet it penetrates every act and incident of our life. All our acts, thoughts, words, deeds and emotions are possible by it. Without it there could be no being. Time is inexplicably a part of divine will.We have derived new ways to save it. We have replaced mail communications with wireless, computers, courier service and emails. We place great premium on speed, spawning the need for new business daily….” quick fix -it” shops, one-hour cleaners, convenience stores, twenty four hours bank tellers, fast food chains, satellite communications, same day service, . All of these “quickies” are designed to save time.
All men and women are born equal. How these golden hours are used determines who becomes rich, poor, successful, failure . We are all prone to accept TIME which one can be sure of is NOW .Of every event of our life is one moment that it is; for ever after it was. Every evening we are poorer by a day. We dream great dreams and allow them to remain dreams because we think that we have no time to accomplish them, because we visualize their realization at some indefinite period in future.
TIME is the essence of everything. Actually it is the only fabric with which the cloth of our life is woven. And the pattern of our life is woven with our thoughts.Our present, future, and our desires to be fulfilled depend upon TIME.So we are to develop “TIME CONSCIENCENESS “for Each moment, each hour, each day.It can be wonderful for a cheerful, enlightened person with a positive attitude and can be a sad thing for a unhealthy person who can only see a swift approach to unconsciousness with each passing moment. With a well developed TIME CONSCIENCENESS we become fully aware of the essence in all fields of life. With our LIMITED CONSCIENCENESS we fail to
recognize our right to a share of all the good things of life. We fail to file our claim to the full abundance of all the things that are available to us
EACH MOMENT WE CAN LIVE in nice way if we visualize those things we possess in that moment of life because all the comforts can not come together all the times. Each daywhen we are doing something, thinking something, what is going around us we should whisper ten times “THIS MOMENT I LIVE “. For instance when we are returning home from the day’s work and greet our family. On this occasion we should think “This moment I live, I am a very wealthy person because I am surrounded by most precious gifts that life can offer “despite our low financial position. We can further think “ I not only live, I breathe the free air, my health is good, I can walk, I think, I act and I am a part of all there is, and all there is a part of me “, These are the things that no circumstances of life can take from any one.
If the fate has decreed, that good health may be absent, or some physical impairment may mar the picture but innovative mind remains with us even then we should think “This moment I live” because of innovative mind. It means we should consider those things which we possess in that moment of life to remain happy
We are quoting one educative movie “He Leaded Me “. It is the story of Ken who was born blind. When Ken’s parents realized there is no hope of restoring his sight they determined to treat him as a normal child. They taught him how to play games and ride a bike and water ski
Years later he bumped with another blind student who said, “Hey, watch it. Don’t “you see I am blind “Oh I am sorry I did not see you “Ken apologized? He attributes his positive outlook on life concentrating those things he could do instead of those things which he could not. He says “The handicap is not the blindness”. Every one is handicapped one way or the other. A handicap is whatever keeps us away from operating at our best. But a handicap is not bad. It may be the thing which motivates us and really gets us going. Say to whatever paralyzes us,” we will triumph over you you can not dominate us”. That may be the best exciting and spiritually rewarding thing that happens to us
Ken’s father advised him so many times either to sit down and feel sorry for him self or to get up and live. This is the bottom line for all of us. Either we should sit around and feel sorry for ourselves or get up and live. For any problem in mind there is either SALVATION OR SOLUTION. When we reach the greatest extremes of endurance” if we have control of our minds we have control of our destiny”
Actually we can not do things tomorrow that we put off today because tomorrow has its own requirements. Moreover it is a burden upon time to carry over something for the next day which could have been done today. This way we create a debt upon time which can never be paid. Also it becomes a tendency to put it off again on next day. It becomes habit and if we establish a habit of procrastination it rules our activity. If we put off adopting a constructive and positive attitude today, we most likely will postpone it again tomorrow. If we fail to give our best today, most likely we fail tomorrow also. Time is inexorable and no one is permitted an opportunity to relive a single moment of it. It slips through the gossamer fabric of our existence, uncomplaining, unprotesting and unrelenting. It rewards richly those who use it well and take its toll of those who use it ill. When we wake up in the morning our purse is filled with 24 hrs the most precious possession. At every moment we are creating our own future and dictating the terms of that future.
Proper use of TIME is the basic theme. The fraction of TIME that we can absolutely sure of is this moment, this second. Life is now, not yesterday or the day before, or an hour ago. Memory of past is there but can never be recalled. Past is gone and future is not predictable so this is the most vital moment to execute. So this TIME allotted should be used properly. It means we are arbiters of our own fate and have actually negotiated with fate for their misery, never realizing that they can just as easily negotiate for a happier, fuller and richer life.
If we are to use each day to the best advantage, we must challenge the pattern of our present daily habits. Adopting positive, constructive thoughts now and focusing our attention on a specific goal, we can create the circumstances we want in the future. Our circumstances of today are the results of thoughts in the past, and regardless of our present circumstances, they were ordered by each of us individually, wittingly or unwittingly. If they are not as we desire them to be, they still are the results of the thoughts we have entertained in the past.
For those who control their destiny, there is no monotonous existence, no bleak future, no moody boredom and no dismal days. Each new day represents a rare gift. It matters not how to spend it or how we conduct ourselves. It is still our day to do with as we want. The right decision is ours. We can take advantage of its many opportunities to stimulate our mind, to do better whatever we do, to do with a grater effort and enthusiasm, and with the desire to put our utmost into whatever it may be. On the other hand, if we fail to utilize it and then we return to older and worse state. There is nothing stationery in life; either we go forward or backward. This progress or retrogress is not monthly or yearly basis but daily and hourly basis. We don’t move by jerks but by trend of our thoughts which precedes us and charts our course. It cuts the path and we must walk it, or establish a new one, by establishing new thought patterns, new habits and new attitudes.
Time spent in anger or resentment is time thrown away. Not only it is not spent usefully but it poisons the system, destroys energy and takes its toll far beyond the actual period of time lost. So it is better to adjust our attitude to avoid this dissipation of our great heritage. This can be done by adopting a philosophy for living and working that may protect us from our inclination to be hurt, angry or upset.
Each of us should vanish the word “ CAN’T “ from our vocabulary and resolve never again to say or think, “ I have no time to do all these things “. We should plant in our subconscious mind “ I have not been able to fit this work in my present schedule “This not only avoids charging our mind with the thought of a limitation, but it charges our sub-conscious mind with a positive statement and clearly carries the expectation and intention of doing soon. It becomes an established act in our sub-conscious mind that it will be done, and so it is. Our capacity of accomplishing any job is usually much beyond our record of accomplishment.
We should avoid the excuses like “But I am too old” “But I am too small” “But I am not good enough yet” “But I am handicapped”
We can do only those tasks what we think we can do. We can have only what we think we can have. Every thing we have, and do, are the results of our thoughts. In addition to our conscience the constant companion of all of us is our ATTITUDE, which speaks to us in varying degrees of strength. It mirrors our mental condition, our view point on life and the multitude of individual subjects that are a part of it in a thousand ways. It continually tells others what kind of person we are and how we react to the challenges of life. Unfortunately it is a mirror not open to our vision, but reveals clearly to every one else. If this awareness did exist and we realized that sooner or later our thoughts would be revealed along with our level of acceptance of life and circumstances of life, then undoubtedly we would make a great effort to disguise this outward flow of information
WHAT WE ARE AND WHAT WE THINK REVEAL IT SELF TO THOSE AROUND US. We should realize what we do. It is the most responsible factor for our position in life. If that position is not as we like it to be, it can be improved by changing our attitude only. Our attitude determines whether we drain its full essence, or leave its rich potential undisturbed and lost for ever from each day. One of the most destructive thieves of TIME is allowing our emotions than mind in thinking. When we permit our emotions to rule, we are relying upon a most unstable and dangerous condition. The mind of man is the key to survival or the door to destruction. To permit emotions to rule is indeed door to destruction. Angers and irritation are the manifestation of negative emotions. They consume tremendous energy and destroy the harmony of all who are with in reach of their vibrations.
When we direct our thoughts without emotions then they can be the passport to all the achievements of which we dream. We should protect ourselves from anger, irritation and the acceptance of disappointments by our intellect. When we are governed by our emotions instead of our intellect, such things become obstacles and detour us from our objectives. These obstacles possess the power only because our emotions created them and gave them life. One of the most successful ways to grab the most out of time is to avoid tenseness which is direct result of worry. Worry never robs tomorrow of its sorrow but destroy today of its strength. If we feel our self falling in to the trap of self-pity, we should learn to sit up and do something constructive immediately.If we feel extremely worried with some worrisome task, we should do it first and feel relaxed. Any problem that can’t be solved should be dismissed from conscious mind and given to subconscious mind without wasting much time and should go to other matter.
One of the wonderful things regarding subconscious mind is that it works tirelessly 24 hrs a day without fatigue. It never runs out of time. In it we have the perfect servant to handle our most difficult problems. By using our subconscious mind fully we can keep our conscious mind clear for day to day problems Thus we will have the TIME to think in broader way for future. Wrestling with problems does not solve them. Instead , we should give some thought to the problems then put it in an organized form and turn it over to subconscious mind to solve and expect for result before the dead line fixed by us. Our answer comes definitely
Another very important TIME SAVER is loneliness. We should spend 15 minutes each day in quietness, freeing our mind of the pressure and demands of the day. We must think clearer, faster and more effectively after that quietness. We should not struggle for ideas they will come after we sit quietly for some time. Human mind has amazing powers which few of us ever draw upon, so small is our knowledge, and so limited is our faith. The subconscious area of our mind is an unplumbed reservoir of creative insight and intuition.
The ancients divided our 24 hrs/per day in three parts, eight hrs for work, eight hrs for rest and eight hours for sleep. By using our subconscious mind we can have twenty four hours for productive thinking. Failure to act is one of the greatest causes of failure to achieve. How we spend our free time is up to us. What happens on week end and between six pm to nine am always shows in what we perform between nine am to six pm.There are many constructive ways in which TIME after working hrs can be invested by the persons who want to distinguish themselves from others. Reading publications, in analysing the performance of the day just ended, in planning tomorrow’s schedule. We should write down a list of things to accomplish the next day, and list them in order of importance. We should stay on the first task unless it is finished, and then start the second. One of the most important and often stated rules to complete the task is “DO IT NOW “because the only property we possess is just this moment. Another thing is “waiting for the perfect conditions to start any thing is most undesirable.” That situation never exists. We should launch the project in available conditions and perfect it along the way.
In developing TIME CONSCIOUSNESS you should learn to coordinate activities and to use each moment. As an example, never to make a telephone call without having work in front of you that you can work on while waiting for your call to go through. Basically TIME is more important than MONEY.
14 THOUGHTS ON INVESTING TIME WISELY
1 DEVELOP TIME CONSCIOUSNESS It is an acute awareness of its existence and that “ EVERY MOMENT I LIVE “
2 ANALYSE TO PRESENT USE OF TIME you should be more selective in the things you do, the books you read or the TV shows you watch. You should see how you can do them more quickly.
3 PUT YOURSELF ON A SCHEDULE you should be critical in construction of your schedule eliminating all unnecessary things. And more important is to follow the time allotted to each task
4 ENFORCE PERSONAL DISCIPLINE It is necessary to carry out the schedule and to discharge all your responsibilities properly to your subordinates and most important to your self.
5 TO RECOGNIZE FIRST THING FIRST This should be a critical appraisal also. The day’s work should be laid out on an analytical basis
6 DAY’S PLANNING IN ADVANCE. For more efficient working you should develop your habit to plan and note down every thing in the evening for tomorrow.
7 PUNCTUALITY A person who is just a little late for work or in returning from lunch is proclaiming a lack of interest in his/her job and also in his/her welfare. It is better to be a little early and stay a little late than to be.This nature of providing extra mile proves fruitful in service as well as in business. Perhaps the greatest disaster resulting from lateness is the destructive habit and attitude, which is being developed by the person involved.
8 INITIATIVE it is the horse power which drives you through your daily task.
9 CHEERFULNESS A happy and cheerful person not only demonstrates his/her maturity but also accomplishes far more than the sour, discouraged or unhappy person.
10 EXCESS PHONE CALLS Everyone must have a personal phone call now and then, but it should be reduced to minimum and only for the most important occasions. Time spent on personal calls or visits during business hours is unfair to the employer, to your self and represents an unwise investment of time.
11 ATTENTION Time spent in day dreaming during business hours is most unproductive. It always creates opportunity for errors as well as low production. Dreams are quite important, and everyone should dream, but during the eight hours for work they should be put aside.
12 DISTINGUISH YOURSELF you should establish a goal of “being the best in your field “whatever it might be. You should be satisfied with nothing less than a brilliant performer, a consciousness of your own ability and worth as an individual, and of your own responsibility to your self.
13 INTEREST IN YOUR JOB Time should be spent with an interest in your job may be employee or employer. Creating interest in the job develop a greater awareness for all aspect of life so that all things you do have and hold a greater interest for you. You should put your 100 % in your work to create wonderful results. People who are not interested in their job frequently have no real focused interest of any kind.
14 DO IT NOW These three words have solved many problems of TIME Present moment is the only moment to do any thing because past is gone and future is not predictable
TO BEGIN IS HALF OF THE WORK DONE
“If you deliberate fully before taking a step, you may stand on one leg for your entire life.”
THE MIND IS CREATIVE, BUT IT MUST HAVE SOME OBJECTIVE OR BLUE PRINT ON WHICH IT CAN WORK. Analysing your present use of time and developing time schedule you can establish a blue print that your mind can respond to if you are faithful in observing it. You should count each day a separate life. The new day is a separate life which you greet every morning grows old swiftly and slips into the past. you should live each day wonderfully so that if it were to be the last day allotted. If you were given the privilege of reliving it, you would not want to change any thought, any word or any action. No regrets about that which could have been done and was not. No regrets about time lost through waste or negative use.
WE ARE MASTERS OF OUR GOOD OR BAD FATE BECAUSE WE HAVE CREATED IT. TIME IS OUR VEHICLE, MIND IS OUR POWER, AND IMAGINATION SETS OUR BOUNDARY.
18 HELPFUL INSTRUCTIONS FOR IMPROVING CUSOMER RELATIONS
1 Golden rule is; you should do unto customers as you would have them do unto you.
2 You should greet your client as guests when they arrive. Let them know that you are welcoming them and want to give them the best service
3 Through out the ceremony you should be a good listener.
4 You should learn all about the services to be provided to your client during ceremony.
5 You should feel proud and respectful in wedding planning services.
6 You should say “please “and “Thank you “when speaking with people.
7 You should not afraid to admit that you don’t know but try to find out
8 You are to realize the client that he/ she is your top priority.
9 You should deliver more than committed without being asked.
10 You should know the bride name and use it while talking to her.
11 You should be proud of your work and learn as much as about wedding history, traditions and protocol.
12 You should welcome each guest promptly. This way you are welcoming the guest and publicising your profession.
13 You should demonstrate a positive and enthusiastic attitude.
14 You are to keep smiling face during the ceremony.
15 You are to reassure the client that the vendors suggested by you are the best one.
16 Your attitude before and during the ceremony should be helpful.
17 You are to realize that how important each and every client for you.
18 Your motto should be “ LISTENING, LEARNING AND IMPROVING “
vijay kumar verma
KV WEDDING CONSULTANTS
CELL 8010101018 vijay@kv-weddingconsultants.com